This means our way of percieving and interpreting the world and others.  The first basis of this is from birth and early attachment styles which means the feelings we once had can drive the way we see the world as adults.  Here we can see why we may distort our experiences to fit our scripts as these hold our frames of reference which once made sense.  Human beings are security basis animals which means they construct these sense making “frames of reference” to create safety, reasoning and understanding.  However, this also mean that these sophisticated ways of once staying safe are not always useful ways to see the world in the present.  We can redefine reality to fit script to feel safe.  This can be so counterproductive as it made sense historically but life may be very different now.  Here we are powerless over a frame of reference because it relates to early life emotion, survival and self preservation thus script decisions and out of awareness.