The individual with this injunction may become panicky when asked to take on a leadership role.  The opposite be really grandiose because of a lack of importance inside as a form of compensation.  It can also be linked to not being able to ask for what you want or not really knowing what your needs are.  There can be a belief of subordination which is acted out in many way.  This can relate to not being self nurturing, hiding away or being  over the top to gain recognition because of a lack of sense of self.  We all need to feel important and wanted thus, this injunction can be painful.