I want to start the new year with step 7 as i think this grounds human life in many ways that are both spiritual and diverse.  It gives us qualities of natural warmth, kindness and empathy.  To live humbly can often link to living with more happiness.  Additionally, this step invites us to come out of our scripty neediness.  In the fellowship this could be defined as our selfish ways of being in the world which is about “me, me, me” .  With script its inevitable that individuals are selfish as its basis is on attachment needs.  The infants way of getting its primal and emotional needs met which are transfered into adulthood and manifested in patterns of behaviours which can be unhealthy.  Often individuals acts this out and its out of awareness.  This is where the action of step 7 and living with humble kindness can invite people out of script whether they are aware of their process or not.  It offers a kind of cross transaction which can stop a self centred pattern or psychological game which historically was about neediness.